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Seek & U Shall Find (“Snoopy”)

Getting in my Mojo for the day, and I #Google the interview from Love & Hip Hop’s Chrissy Lampkin squashing infidelity rumors about rapper beau Jim Jones. http://www.realitytea.com/tag/chrissy-lampkin/ I truly respect her standpoint of being a woman who is well kept, and trusting her man to keep her house a happy home leaving all the TRASH outside of the door.

Playing “Snoop Doggy Dog” looking through texts and social network seems like it’s a growing epidemic for some partners.I assume your intuition played a part. It’s like a battle between your heart and its emotions VS. your mind (voice of logic and reason). I have to admit though, finding what you DON’T want should only prompt you to figure out what you DESERVE. I can be a #REALB enough to admit I’ve done it! Suspicions felt, justified me snooping, but eh…Once I found what I didn’t want, I bet I didn’t have to do it again.

I asked one of my respected male friends about the topic. Of course that’s a no go, according to him! It’s like taking a piece of a man’s manhood and by the facial expressions expressed after I posed the question, he stated that maybe previous relationship pattern history and trust issues would be a reason for justifying the act of snooping. Suspicions should be shot down by asking for the truth and receiving the truth. If entertaining dishonesty, realize that you’re still being lied to; which follows through with pursuit of the snoop effect—(now you’re looking alll crazy!)

Confrontation should occur if you have taken the liberty to snoop. When I’ve played my role of “Snoop Doggy Dog” I had to basically decide how I wanted to deal with it. State the issue at hand so there is no confusion(this is what I know, this is what I saw, this is what I want to know). I have had the whole “insecure” word thrown out afterwards, but reality is that insecurity would be based off of infidelity. (it doesn’t have to be physical, it can be emotional as well). If it turned to a denial, I left. #KNOWYOURWORTH

If it’s worth repairing, by all means do it…if it’s not KEEP IT MOVIN.

Signin off XoXo RealBdotcom

Live Life in Moderation

Keri Hilson – Breaking Point

NOTHING  should ever distract u from being the best that you can in life. Making money, having money, or keeping it afloat as you make it to the next paycheck are essentially keys of balancing life and remaining equally leveled. (relationships, friends, habits, etc should not get in the way of keeping finances available and easily attainable)…This is America, no bill gets paid off of promises, or love…

It seems like happiness is an addiction. Too much of anything can be bad for you, they say everything needs moderation and dosages.

You can sleep TOO much, eat TOO much, think TOO much, love TOO much… (you get the idea)…being drunken off of whatever your addiction of choice is sometimes can impair your judgement.

 Happiness in full force is great, but it too needs moderation.

If you find yourself doing things in excess to keep that momentum and euphoria going…Channel yourself to exercise all of the other emotions and actions of the world before you allow yourself to completely be an idiot to your selfishness.(..if the world’s name was Burger King, then surely everything will be your way, and your way accordingly.)

Think of it like this, if we were allowed to feel completely how we wanted to with no rammifications other than our happiness in this world, you might as well tell me that you’re GOD….HE’s the only one who has that capability.

In the words of my dear friend in one of our “Sex in the City-San Antonio” moments:

“Rule #1 Never lose money chasing men/women,

Rule #2 Dont forget rule #1!”—@ShaniSweetz

(sometimes love is happiness…getting lost in someone affects your true desire to get ahead because you’re so focused on “we” instead of “me”. Funny how things can change with the thought of “emotion”)

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I feel like I have a pretty general idea or consensus of topics to talk about, but at some point as the reader, I would like to know, what is it that you would like to have me blog about?

What questions do you have that we can explore? 

Please feel free to comment the blog and I will get with you to conjure up more blogs that have more insight.

XOXO

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