A REAL B MOMENT: LOVIN THE CREW? 80/20 Rule?Who Cares?? JUST CHOOSE!

I posted a little tidbit on the Trey Songz, Lauren London beef that arose on social networks today. I chose “lovin the crew” not only because it’s the last Drake song a friend played in her car as we proceeded to work, but it symbolizes how a guy/ girl WILL utilize the skill of “Having their cake” and “Eating it too” if you don’t smush the shit in their face.

I had a friend, who took the time out of her day to work on a relationship restore after a hard days work with her “man”. She’s the 80 of course! However, there are 20’s floating around…She shouldn’t be working towards restoring something that she never wrecked. Not only is her effort more than what’s given…but I guess the words “LOVE” and “your so understanding” and “I appreciate you” are the pacifiers for #doormatting.

My key rule to all of my friends is, your business ain’t my business and my business ain’t yo business…but when it comes down to listening, I had to give my opinion and feedback on what’s real…If you are a man or a woman holding on to past 20’s while you have an “alleged” exclusive relationship with an 80..SLAP YA SELF! Even if it’s vice versa…Really? You have to have more than one person? Big Ego Pimpin!!!!

In my opinion (for my friend), it’s nasty…if you wanna live like a KING produce the LIFE to a QUEEN so she won’t be worried about the other “issues”. That’s what men who had many wives did, took care of home…Today’s day in age it’s like you’re settling for bare minimum just to say your with someone. The idiot below(Kobe Bryant)…I cannot take away from his career, but I can say he’s a “loving the crew” get caught type. Everytime he gets caught cheating however, he realizes it’s cheaper to keep her. O_o

And for those “havers AND eaters” at the same damn time, Don’t you get tired of getting “love from the crew”… Some guy was telling me all men love hoes, they love women, but they love hoes too….Sad thing is a REAL WOMAN will be EVERYTHING a man needs and more (if he acts right)…so what’s the next excuse?….Stay lovin the crew if thas how u live, but damn move around from the real pollute fake hoes with that dumb shit!

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“LOVE HURTS :-/” TREY AND LAUREN FACEBOOK DRAMATICS!

AT first I was suprised by that beautiful little picture in my update from several people subscribed to Lauren Londons Facebook page. I’m like Kudos though…15 hours later, I get an email and inbox to go check a friends Facebook update because Trey Songz and Lauren London are beefing publicly (EYEBROW RAISE..) We just found out y’all were a couple though…If you want to peep the mess here are a few clips below via screenshot. Or you can Go subscribe to Lauren London’s Page or Trey Songz (Tremaine Neverson). It appeared that the beef started about 14 hours ago and has since died down, but the screen shots are below!!! O_o Publicity stunt or is this really real? They are human after all just like we  are… but rumor has it, this may have been in regards to YMCMB’s own Shanell SNL (Side eye) hmmm well…Say it aint So…but, I can say right now, I bet the neighbors DON’T know his name right now, from Lauren London’s suburb!!!

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MURDER WAS THE CASE THAT THEY GAVE HIM!!!!(NOT GUILTY)

Torrence Hatch is no longer facing life in prison, don’t clap too quick, Boosie still got a sentence for nonrelated drug charges!!! (But y’all keep in mind time served, we’ll be seeing him sooner than we think)

Accused of ordering primary witness Michael ‘Marlo Mike’ Louding to murder Terry Boyd, 35-year-old Boyd was shot to death in his home in Baton Rouge in October 2009. Loudly chanting “Boosie, Boosie, Boosie”, nothing but support as roars leave the courtroom on the verdict.

Louding’s tattoo of an AK-47, with the script “Yo Boosie Who’s Next?” as proof that the two conspired together. O_o (not a good look riiiiiiiiiiiiiiite about now…#IJS)

Defense argued that violent imagery and lyrics in music are not evidence of a crime. The images are a part of a branding effort in the business of selling records.” Williams stated lead prosecutor Dana Cummings, “has put an entire [Rap/HipHop] culture on trial.” (which is true, it’s a job, #SUPPLYANDDEMAND isn’t just a topic in school, it’s the real live version of propaganda.)

The Lil’ Boosie Defense Fund, www.boosiejustice.com, created by close friends and family,w/ sales of T-shirts, hoodies and music available at www.boosiegear.com go towards an estimated $250,000 in attorney fees.

Close friends Yo Gotti and Jeezy are going to assist with lawyer fees…. (Dat Rite!!!!)Jeezy told him he’s willing to help.We’re actually about to send out the first payment this month.”

You wanna get a feature wit Boosie Boo? 25k a pop and you got dat!!! (get ya features up, where ya bread at?)

“We’re about to drop those [songs] right now,” says Carbon 15. “We’re going to let his name live until he can get back out here.”

Lil’ Boosie’s oldest daughter, Iviona, made a song for her father and she’s selling it to get money for his defense fund as well. ( and I looooooooooooooooooved it….what’s cuter than a lil shawty supportin her daddy’s cause??)

#FREEBOOSIE i’m still screamin’ that one. An 8 year sentence is in place as of now for the drug charges.The man already been locked up for a few years already, I know money talks, and good friends are always great to have when you’re in some compromising situations..so we’ll keep in tuned on the Boosie Boo update on when he’ll be free in the streets for good. 🙂

According to another source, “It will be excluding time already served. He attempted to acquire drugs while he was being held at Dixon Correctional Facility and Angola State Penitentiary. “Torrence has been dealing with a drug problem for sometime now,. He’s been trying to get that under control and you heard his own voice he would like to get drug rehab,” Boosie’s lawyer, Jason Williams, said.”

http://thisbeatgoes.com/hip-hop-news/lil-boosie-found-guilty-of-smuggling-drugs-into-prison/

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Dat Boy still got Milk on his breath, literally!

Jamie Lynne Grumet, 26, startled us with her “attachment parenting” technique though Time Magazine’s story.

“People have to realize this is biologically normal,” she said, adding, “The more people see it, the more it’ll become normal in our culture. That’s what I’m hoping. I want people to see it.”

I don’t believe as a society we have a right to deem what is right and what is wrong, personally. I can see the distastefulness in the picture displayed for the topic, but it’s not giving or depicting anything such as child pornography or abuse.

When I write, I base it off of my ability to broadcast and convey words to a viewer. So the picture painted essentially is not to like, dislike, or start chaos and confusion, in my opinion….It’s a story…The fact that a woman’s body produces milk, her body, her kids, not my problem. Now if Time Magazine did an article on “Bonqueesha” who was on Government assistance for her 8 kids, using Similac…we would have an issue with that as well…

It’s really her business how she raises her kids as long as she’s not one using MY HARD EARNED TAX DOLLARS TO TAKE CARE OF HERS! I may not agree with the latching of his toddler ass on a breast (looking like he can make me a sandwich), but I don’t think this is something you can relay as sexually disturbing for a child…they are only taught what we teach them….Remember that!!!

…YOU’RE DAMNED IF YOU DO DAMNED IF YOU DON’T!!!

Im waiting for Frankie Thomas for a paneled discussion, I’d love to go into this deeper as debate.

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the “FUTURE OF ATL” coming to San Antonio

Atlanta rapper, Future’s PLUTO tour officially starts in SAN ANTONIO, TX 05/23/2012 7pm. GET READY!!! I’m preparing you, if you haven’t already, get the lyrics down so you won’t be “that” friend who became a fan after Future comes in and shows out. #Support the music: “Ballin”, “Rainin’ Money”, “Street Life” w/ Wick-it the Instigator , and”In the Morning”, “Tony Montana” and also a hot feature with YC “Racks”

XXL coined his music as “futuristic drinking and drugging jams” and “tales of the grind.” Making the sound on the albums more like a “story” to the fans, he tells Mixtape Daily, “I just wanted to go in and paint the picture for the streets.” with innovative ideas and digital autotuning as an additive, it gives his sound that extra creative “ummmph”. I’m Spongebob REEEAAAADY for Wednesday the 23rd to come so he can perform.

Local artists are ENCOURAGED to proactively put the word out! #SUPPORT210. It’s a great way to network as well. Looking to open up for Future? All artists contact “CEO T CLASS”(713)-724-7073 for further details about paving your way to fame.

“I’m excited to have the honor of giving my fans the true Pluto live show experience. Turn-up never turn-down”, notes Future who has been described by the New York Times as “a rising titan”- headliner of the upcoming tour, with special guest artist Pusha T.—-futurefreebandz.com

If you’re from surrounding cities and areas feel free to take part in Future’s debut. For ticket or concert inquiries, please Contact “CEO T CLASS” by phone (713) 724-7073 via facebook, or online www.Tclassent.com . For Future tour and information http://www.futurefreebandz.com

Contact the Promoters: CEO T CLASS (713)724-7073 www.Tclassent.com or DLP Collective http://futuresamay23-dlpcollective.eventbrite.com/

Followmore on Future’s tour and other info: http://www.futurefreebandz.com

Credits: pics www.clatl.com , www.hotspotatl.com; Interview: Mixtape Daily, XXL
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A REALB MOMENT: WALK THAT WALK!!!

A highschool peer made a post on Facebook, and I’m tickled fancy. She is a beautiful, established, young, black single woman who has everything going for herself. First impressions are not only lasting ones, messin’ with Ms. Walker you better have your own, this woman’s no joke when it comes to being a woman who knows her worth, and what she DOESN’T want to put up with!!!!
Her post starts of with this question: “Ok ladies answer me this: was I wrong??
I went to dinner with a guy tonight & his card declined. He only had $20 cash, so I paid for it. I asked him for my money back & he thought I was joking. As I sat there I’m thinking, “This is so crazy & he actually think this is cool”. My food was already boxed up so I told him I’ll be waiting in the car because he was waiting for a to-go box as well… I get to my car & I dipped out on him!! Keep in mind he lives about 45 – 50 minutes away too! As Dorrough would say: “WALK THAT WALK, WALK THAT WALK, WALK THAT WALK THAT WALK THAT WALK!” ….He should’ve known something when I walked out by myself with purse, phone & keys in hand! Freakin idiot…29 years old & ain’t got $25 to buy his own dinner! #damnshame”.


Friends replied:
“ Did he try to use the Kevin Hart excuse?, “See the way my bank account works is….”
“U drove him n left now u kno u wrong, u could of took him hm n never talk to him again that’s is messed up…….”
I totally agree with her and to be honest she didn’t OWE him to take his grown ass anywhere, it wasn’t even a date. HE invited himself!!! (so that means he should have been prepared for whatever came with tagging along). Ladies, lets wisen up, if he tries them hustle moves, grab YOUR keys, grab YOUR to go plate, get in YOUR car, and let Dorrough tell’em “WALK THAT WALK” Get some balls, or be a #DOORMAT and get all stepped on…Your Choice!!!
Thanks to Ms. T Walker for sharing this story and allowing me to share it with u all!!!
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@DiamondATL aka Ms. 32 FLAVAZ

Brittany Nicole Carpentero…y’all know her… Ms. ATLien cornbread fed Puerto Rican and Black mixture thoroughbred…She is one of my most favorite mainstream and mixtape femcees to date. I just love her!!!Ms. Diamond aka Ms. 32 Flavaz (now Google that!)

Creating her legacy by joining the group Crime Mob in 2004. The group’s takeover launched with “Knuck If You Buck,” Which went platinum instantaneously. She moved forward with her own endeavors November 2007. Diamond left her group and 2010, showed us what #HOTLANTA chicks are made of!!! “My Chick Bad,” which was a Ludacris single, along with Trina and Eve reminded us she is no rookie to the game.

Debuting her very own single “Lotta Money” the summer of 2010, heightened the coming out of #TEAMPRETTY leader(@Twitter hashtag she populated); Keeping the fans enticed, she released her single “Buy It All” on BET’s 106 & Park late 2011, and was also nominated for Best Female Hip Hop Artist at the BET Awards of 2011. What an amazing year for her!!!

Rumors of her being on the new season of Love and Hip hop…#SMASHED!!!!…DON’T believe the hype!!! She will NOT be doing so. “I’m just not trying to surround myself around drama,” Diamond told AllHipHop.com. “I just have worked so hard to get away from that. I’d rather put my life into music, rather then just be on a reality show. I’m just not one to gamble with my life and career like that.”

The most controversial thing I can say that surfaced was former breakup fire that was fueled with ATL’s crowned Prince Lil’ Scrappy (and his Ma Dukes). A brief candid sour patch candy face moment (not for her however). As of now she has been linked with rapper beau Soulja Boy. Talk about #UPGRADED swag. I’m not sure how true that is, but any man with Jay-Z attributes better “Beyonce” his woman’s life!!!

What’s new in 2012??? According to @DiamondATL Twitter news, As anticipation builds for her debut album,she told Boombox.com, “I don’t want it to drop no later than third quarter [of 2012]…I’m just gearing up with a lot of different producers. I’m going down to Miami, to start work with The Runners. I have two records with Jim Jonsin. So I’m just transitioning over to that big sound, leaving that old sound behind.”

And ya girl gon’ go HOLLYWOOD!!! She’s doing a movie as well. Diamond has been my breath of new inspiration for wearing all the hats of a real woman holding it down in Hip Hop: keeping her business personal (and out of unnecessary scandal), chasing goals through obstacles and successfully working towards them to execute and pursue. #ATL #SALUTE

“A lot of other artists reached out to me because of my mixtape, and they want to do features on it,”

I can see why, here are some of her most recent works.

2009: “Superbad” (featuring Cee-Lo Green)
2010: “Lotta Money”
2011: “Hit That Hoe” (featuring Waka Flocka)
2011: “Buy It All”
2012: “Loose Screws”

Mixtapes
2007: Bitch Musik
2008: Bitch Musik Vol. 2: Ms. Boojhetto
2009: P.M.S. (Pardon My Swag)
2010: Bitch Musik: Part Three
2010: Cocaine Waitress
2011: Bitch Musik 4: Poor Little Rich Gurl

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Credits: Pictures FredyO.com, Interview: Boombox.com & AllHipHop.com

“Officially Miss Guided” aka….

OMG Girlz! Say hello to the newest “girls on the block”. American teenage girl group formed by Tameka “Tiny” Harris and Kiesha Miles in 2009. This Atlanta based girl group is on the rise,with stylish fashion sense and positive “independent girl” powered anthems that are comparable to TLC, with their matrixed 3-some formulation and scintillating fashion style and amazing chemistry, WEEEERKKK!.

The group consists of Members Zonnique Pullins, Bahja Rodriguez, Breaunna Womack. Past members included Reginae Carter (Grammy Award winning Lil’ Wayne’s daughter and one of the original members) & Lourdres Rodriguez (her separation from

the group was said to be age related.) So far no dramatics in regards to separation for these lil’ women in media press for their reconstruction.

The OMG Girlz signed a recording deal with Pretty Hustle/Grand Hustle Records with the single release “Gucci this, Gucci that”, have been featured on the “Scream” tour with Mindless Behavior, BET reality show Tiny & Toya, 106 & Park, so forth and so on.

Their iconicly viewed parents must be proud. Even with Lil Miss Reginae Carter(who is no longer a part of the OMG Girlz). How can you not want to attempt to live up to your parents stardom and fame? “Star” has TI and both Tiny to look up to in regards to Hip Hop and Girl group do’s and don’t’s. I can see this group being a new age success, becoming iconic to our now teen ladies coming up.

Based out of Atlanta (Hip Hop Music mecca), equally talented, along with an expanding fan base from tweens up to adults, there isn’t any competition right now between the ages of 13-17.

So it appears that they are ahead. There is alot of talented young artists, but (frowny face….) No girl groups come to mind.

The lyrics for “Gucci this, Gucci that goes as such, “Gucci this, Gucci that, Gucci everything… give me this, give me that, give me everything,” and “What kind of chick you know rocks Gucci from head to toe?”

Despite all their hardworks and efforts to gain as much positive feedback as possible, there are a few “naysayers”when it comes to these pleasantly beautiful young ladies

…

Well I peeped the video and I loved it. They were dressed APPROPRIATELY for starters…These ladies represent themselves well. Some people’s controversy, in my opinion are simply bank related…(OH!!! you hatin’ on little girls who make more than you do off of a song than you will in a lifetime???…#BEMAD)

How can they be viewed as “materialistic”?? I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but these kids aren’t hurting for anything. They can even BUY publicity if it was that important to them. So let’s keep it positive people. Remember they’re working for their “Gucci this, Gucci that” the same way you sit up at your job working for yours! Instead of hatin… Get you some “Gucci this, Gucci that” and don’t be a hater all ya life! Haha

#ATL #iSalute

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He/She Smashed the Homies…

Urban dictionary “correct definition” is:
When a person in a relationship (open or exclusive) finds out their partner has slept (had sex) with their friend/associate, prior to the relationship’s existence.

You meet someone, y’all vibe, connect and expand on another level, just to find out somebody had a piece of the pie you want to fully consume?! It happens so much, and I did remember briefly “For the Love of Ray J”, the beginning of this “Smash the Homie” pandemonium. He had two instances where two women slept with one of his close friends. .Reality is, there is too much time in the world to build towards getting over who your lover smashed. Why be worried about what happened before you “clocked” your time in with your boo. That’s all it is…a PRIOR technicality, or “foul” in the game of life.It doesn’t mean it’s completely over, it is a small hiccup that requirea you be a grown individual. “IT” happens, get over yourself. If you’re not the Virgin Mary herself, you’re bound to sleep with someone or be with someone through an extension of someone you know, knew or heard of! Real T.

I’m not saying to partake in a big orgy fest and expect it and accept it, but it’s probably common that it’s occurred at least once in a lifetime. Getting to know people and dating are not on my tasks of easy to do’s, but it can be done if there is, men probably handle this better than women. Majority of women tend not to judge you on your past. We trust in our ability to enhance a man through a relationship, or “Upgrade U”. That basically means you don’t need anybody or anything further (she accepted your “smash the homie” and is holding you down, what more do you need?). Most men more than likely will test women until they get to a point where they can trust her, especially if she was the homie smasher.

I don’t believe that who you slept with before who you fell in love with will determine if your relationship will last.You have no control over who you meet and sleep with, and if anybody is at fault, it would be coincidence. I don’t like the idea of conforming to society for their idea of happiness. Live your life… and if you can’t, check out my previous post it gives you insight on how to worry about you.

“GET YO LIFE BOO, GET YO LIFE” https://realbdotcom.wordpress.com/2012/05/03/get-yo-life-boo-get-yo-life/

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Seek & U Shall Find (“Snoopy”)

Getting in my Mojo for the day, and I #Google the interview from Love & Hip Hop’s Chrissy Lampkin squashing infidelity rumors about rapper beau Jim Jones. http://www.realitytea.com/tag/chrissy-lampkin/ I truly respect her standpoint of being a woman who is well kept, and trusting her man to keep her house a happy home leaving all the TRASH outside of the door.

Playing “Snoop Doggy Dog” looking through texts and social network seems like it’s a growing epidemic for some partners.I assume your intuition played a part. It’s like a battle between your heart and its emotions VS. your mind (voice of logic and reason). I have to admit though, finding what you DON’T want should only prompt you to figure out what you DESERVE. I can be a #REALB enough to admit I’ve done it! Suspicions felt, justified me snooping, but eh…Once I found what I didn’t want, I bet I didn’t have to do it again.

I asked one of my respected male friends about the topic. Of course that’s a no go, according to him! It’s like taking a piece of a man’s manhood and by the facial expressions expressed after I posed the question, he stated that maybe previous relationship pattern history and trust issues would be a reason for justifying the act of snooping. Suspicions should be shot down by asking for the truth and receiving the truth. If entertaining dishonesty, realize that you’re still being lied to; which follows through with pursuit of the snoop effect—(now you’re looking alll crazy!)

Confrontation should occur if you have taken the liberty to snoop. When I’ve played my role of “Snoop Doggy Dog” I had to basically decide how I wanted to deal with it. State the issue at hand so there is no confusion(this is what I know, this is what I saw, this is what I want to know). I have had the whole “insecure” word thrown out afterwards, but reality is that insecurity would be based off of infidelity. (it doesn’t have to be physical, it can be emotional as well). If it turned to a denial, I left. #KNOWYOURWORTH

If it’s worth repairing, by all means do it…if it’s not KEEP IT MOVIN.

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