Realbdotcom: It’s not you, It’s me. #EXCUSE

A line used to help you feel less guilty when you feel responsible for wanting to break up, leaving some sort of room for an opening to come back to the relationship. (for some)

…Skip the BS line and get right to explaining specifically the issues that make YOU incompatible in the relationship. “Look Deeper” according to PsychAlive, who knows it may blossom the very relationship you’re running from.

“Relationships are perfect vehicles for living out feelings we’ve carried with us since childhood. As much as we may love our partners, we are conditioned to project our negative self-image and unresolved pain onto them. Identifying the seeds our current feelings sprout from, we are able to demystify the things that trouble us most in our relationships and approach our partners from a rational, adult perspective. [The popular Seinfield show used the It’s not you, it’s me excuse, “Nobody tells me it’s them not me, if it’s anybody it’s me.” By taking these steps to develop ourselves, we can [expand your relationships. ]”–psychalive.org